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herself. It
is
not good foEva becat:se Eva feels that her
mother hates her, doesn't
care
and doesn't
love her.
We can read the
theodes
about this
problem fro;:n
these
experts'
point of view:
"Since
most
children are
egocer:.tric,
it
is
r:.ot
surprising
that their
concepts
of "Parents" are based
mainly on
how their parents treat them, especially in
the
areas of
discipline,
nurtura.;l.ce,
and
recreat:on. Parents
are
"good",
for
example,
if
they r.elp
the
children,
but
"ba.d"
if
they
frustmte
them."
(Hurlock, !978,
p.509).
Then to follow, Hurlock
(!978) says
in his psychology:
"Yo;mg
ch:ldren
usua
ly
think
of
"Mother"
as
a
person
who
does
things
for them, who take cares of
the:r physical
needs, who
gives them affection
and attentior.,
who
is almost
always
happy
a.Ild
in
good
humor, who
tolerates, and
who comes to their aid
in times
of
trouble." (Hurlock, 1978,
p.510)
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